"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i have never been so sore in my life!

HandyAndy

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A couple days a go i was given 200 "up-downs" by my coach. If you dont know what those are, you start off standing and chopping your feet, you drop flat on the ground and push your self up, and then stand back up and repeat, its almost like doing 200 pushups. My arms, shoulder, chest, back and sides are extremely sore. I literally cant straighten my arm fully, i cant lift my arm to put deodorant, i cant even reach my fork to eat my food and when im standing i walk like a retard because im so tensed up, how can i relieve the pain?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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go to a local GNC and get yourself some BCAA, take about 6 to 10 grams daily; usually after you work out. It's NATURAL, and will help speed up the recovery by aiding in protien synthesis. Oh yea, you gotta get protein too.
 

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HandyAndy said:
A couple days a go i was given 200 "up-downs" by my coach. If you dont know what those are, you start off standing and chopping your feet, you drop flat on the ground and push your self up, and then stand back up and repeat, its almost like doing 200 pushups. My arms, shoulder, chest, back and sides are extremely sore. I literally cant straighten my arm fully, i cant lift my arm to put deodorant, i cant even reach my fork to eat my food and when im standing i walk like a retard because im so tensed up, how can i relieve the pain?
:crackup: People are so stupid & funny. Drink some protein shakes, stretch and do cardio. Like swimming or walking to speed up the healing process. There's nothing else u can do, but suck it up. :crackup:
 
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