"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have never been happier!

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THANK YOU!

To all the people that have taken the time to post and share their experiences, one big thank you!

I think I started lurking in 2004, since then my life has changed for the better. Much better in fact. From being one fat slob to a lean, mean, fighting machine.

I am making more money, have had more women, and achieve many more things that I had thought I would ever achieve.

All thanks to this site.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree.

One year ago (age 40) I was making $100K and dating a girl who I adored (age 36). Then I lost my job and she dumped me (saying I was too old for her) and I had to move to live near my parents.

6 months ago I was unemployed, suffering severe oneitis, living in a retirement community, and honestly wanting to be dead.

But for 3 months now I've been in my new city, making $160K, and dating an HB9 stripper (age 20) who loves older men.

This forum really helped, especially during the tough times - thanks everyone.
 
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What on earth are you doing to make $160k?!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I make $80 an hour ($160K per year) doing computer work (of course). 3D Math and Computer Graphics.
 
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I love all of you. This is so brilliant to see. Sosuave isn't a seduction forum for women. IT'S ABOUT THE SEDUCTION OF LIFE.

BENDING THAT ***** OVER AND GETTING YOUR WAY. Because anything is possible and there is no reason to waste it.

Beautiful.
 
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