"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have grown but need improvements

oscarxp25

Don Juan
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Three years ago when I came to this site, I was hopeless, but I have become better. I have hooked up with some women and my overall stance with the opposite sex is a lot better. Back in the day, I couldn't even talk to girls.


Most of my hook ups are from the girls coming on to me. I think I have only bagged three girls in my life from my own presuing.


I can start conversations with girls, make them laugh but always fail at a certain moment. I think they only see me as a friend and I physce myself out. I want to know how I can communicate that I want to sleep with them and not be friends because I have a enough female friends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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COD

Master Don Juan
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PARADIGN SHIFT-stop with that thinking process of friendzone and reframe your thoughts of how many orgasm she will be experiencing

2-step it up-kino works........eye contact, a lil flirting with sub text talk.

3-FRIENDS DO FRIENDLY STUFF........show her PHYSICALLY your interested in more.
 
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