"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have grown but need improvements

oscarxp25

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Three years ago when I came to this site, I was hopeless, but I have become better. I have hooked up with some women and my overall stance with the opposite sex is a lot better. Back in the day, I couldn't even talk to girls.


Most of my hook ups are from the girls coming on to me. I think I have only bagged three girls in my life from my own presuing.


I can start conversations with girls, make them laugh but always fail at a certain moment. I think they only see me as a friend and I physce myself out. I want to know how I can communicate that I want to sleep with them and not be friends because I have a enough female friends.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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COD

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PARADIGN SHIFT-stop with that thinking process of friendzone and reframe your thoughts of how many orgasm she will be experiencing

2-step it up-kino works........eye contact, a lil flirting with sub text talk.

3-FRIENDS DO FRIENDLY STUFF........show her PHYSICALLY your interested in more.
 
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