Guys, Merry Xmas.
I have been seeing a chick for 4 months. around 12 dates? We are asians.
Long story short, first few months are great, she's completely into me. Afterwhich, her behavior became inconsisitant and sometimes "Missing in action" for 1 or 2 weeks after a great date, which's confusing me. For your info, she has been INCONSISTENT for the past 2 months.. dates can be dam great and sometimes not so good.
Experienced friends claim that she's kinda a player and tooling, leading on guys. Apparently, I admit she's a player but i was blinded that time.
***Xmas Eve***
We went out and it was kinda a boring date, (she wasn't contributing much in action <in body language terms>, hope you guys get what i mean). Decided to cut the date short and i DELIBRATELY test her by asking her out on the next day to do some Xmas shopping.
She was cool and enthu about the idea, and i delibrately made her promise that we have to meet up as there will be surprises to be expected. (I phrase it in a cool way, non-needy).
She mentioned that she's tired and need not see her home as we are meeting the next day. I was cool, she mentioned calling me once she reaches home. She didn't. Instead, she went to meet her friends despite being "Tired". (I know she still have other plates spinning)
***Xmas Actual Day***
She txt me 2 hours before the date, "Sorry Velvet, I am very sick and i can't keep the promise to go out". Afterwhich, I'm more determined to pull the trigger (She really cross the line..) and..
I txt back "Yesterday you say you are tired but you met your friend instead and made yourself sick today. I hate Liars. <HB name> I am disappointed in you. Let's not see one another again."
Later she called me in a sick tone (Most prob she's acting) and I sound indifferent and say that I'm busy and out with someone else and pull down the phone.
Afterwhich she txt me again "Sorry Velvet i cannot keep the promise. I am crying now.." (Utter Bullsh!T in my opinion.)
I never call/txt her back.
I'm happy for being able to pull this trigger and moving on to sarge other potentials, have already set up dates with other chicks.
Guys, I was just thinking. What if she contact me back? How do i get my power back and make her interest level increases? She knows I'm also seeing other girls.
I kinda know what to do, just wanna see what more can be improved in this situation.
Merry Xmas.
I have been seeing a chick for 4 months. around 12 dates? We are asians.
Long story short, first few months are great, she's completely into me. Afterwhich, her behavior became inconsisitant and sometimes "Missing in action" for 1 or 2 weeks after a great date, which's confusing me. For your info, she has been INCONSISTENT for the past 2 months.. dates can be dam great and sometimes not so good.
Experienced friends claim that she's kinda a player and tooling, leading on guys. Apparently, I admit she's a player but i was blinded that time.
***Xmas Eve***
We went out and it was kinda a boring date, (she wasn't contributing much in action <in body language terms>, hope you guys get what i mean). Decided to cut the date short and i DELIBRATELY test her by asking her out on the next day to do some Xmas shopping.
She was cool and enthu about the idea, and i delibrately made her promise that we have to meet up as there will be surprises to be expected. (I phrase it in a cool way, non-needy).
She mentioned that she's tired and need not see her home as we are meeting the next day. I was cool, she mentioned calling me once she reaches home. She didn't. Instead, she went to meet her friends despite being "Tired". (I know she still have other plates spinning)
***Xmas Actual Day***
She txt me 2 hours before the date, "Sorry Velvet, I am very sick and i can't keep the promise to go out". Afterwhich, I'm more determined to pull the trigger (She really cross the line..) and..
I txt back "Yesterday you say you are tired but you met your friend instead and made yourself sick today. I hate Liars. <HB name> I am disappointed in you. Let's not see one another again."
Later she called me in a sick tone (Most prob she's acting) and I sound indifferent and say that I'm busy and out with someone else and pull down the phone.
Afterwhich she txt me again "Sorry Velvet i cannot keep the promise. I am crying now.." (Utter Bullsh!T in my opinion.)
I never call/txt her back.
I'm happy for being able to pull this trigger and moving on to sarge other potentials, have already set up dates with other chicks.
Guys, I was just thinking. What if she contact me back? How do i get my power back and make her interest level increases? She knows I'm also seeing other girls.
I kinda know what to do, just wanna see what more can be improved in this situation.
Merry Xmas.
