"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have an easy lay in front of me...but I'm having second thoughts

BPH

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Yes this is my ego stepping in, but I'm wondering if that fact that I'm having second thoughts means the first isn't good enough.

I'm in high school and there's this girl that I can definitely f*** this weekend...like it's been confirmed by the girl and everything.

But she's borderline hot to me. She's hot some days but other days...not so much. Like today she had her hair up in a ponytail like she had just gotten out of the shower, glasses on, baggy sweatpants showing off an a$$ that isn't really there, and a black hoody...

I mean what the f*** I can't tell if this girl is going to be hot or not when I get her naked, and I'm just not sure I should lay this chick, as opposed to going out and getting hotter ones. This girl is attractive to me because she looks kinda good and is easy and available. She's no supermodel that gets me hard on sight or anything.

So...would you hit it if you were in the same situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MM92

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As far as i'm concerned if you're not repulsed by her and get a boner when thinking of her sexually i'd go for it.
 

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Mmmm sounds to me like your being to fussy, if u really want to know what she looks like naked, make it happen and get fired in

If its a rubbish ride just don't go back for seconds, me personally, I've ****ed everything from size 6 to size 16, if she's really extra repulsive with her kit off it's nothing abit of oral sex on her part doesn't fix

In short, hit that sh!t
 

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Dude, just stop being a pvssy and go for it. There are more pros than cons. Don't hesitate; create.
 

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I say go for it. If after hitting it you don't feel it, then you can ease off. If anything it will keep your skills/tools sharp for when something hotter comes around. You don't want to be lasting 20 seconds with a hotter piece of tail... ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bro go for it I bet you in 10 years she will be a dime piece and all the super hot girls now will be hags. Once you bang this girl it will boost your confidence and you can hook up with more girls!
 

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BPH said:
But she's borderline hot to me. She's hot some days but other days...not so much. Like today she had her hair up in a ponytail like she had just gotten out of the shower, glasses on, baggy sweatpants showing off an a$$ that isn't really there, and a black hoody...
Few girls are hot at all times, most need at least a bit of preparation with clothing and/or makeup. That's actually the final criteria a woman needs to pass for me rank her as a 9: does she look hot no matter how she is dressed and how little makeup she's wearing?
 

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Zerro said:
Few girls are hot at all times, most need at least a bit of preparation with clothing and/or makeup. That's actually the final criteria a woman needs to pass for me rank her as a 9: does she look hot no matter how she is dressed and how little makeup she's wearing?
I can understand that, but I at least want the body to be there. And to wataf, I don't care how she will look in 10 years, I care how she looks now.

I've f***ed 2 other girls so far and the first was a beauty pageant girl and the second was the hottest Asian in school...this girl's appeal comes from her being an easy lay. I really don't think I wanna hit this.

If it were on the same day when I arranged this, when I was really horny, maybe...but the more I have time to think about it the less I like this idea.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't do it.
Roger that.

If you are in doubt, do not proceed, do not collect $200.

Evacuate the situation immediately and report to the nearest RV point.

When dealing with women or anything else in life you should be 100% sure it is what you definitely want. If there is a 1% doubt in your mind then do not go through with it.

Always be 100% sure that whatever it is you plan do it is given 100% effort on your part also. With this lesson in mind you should come out the otherside relatively unscathed.
 
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