"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have an easy lay in front of me...but I'm having second thoughts

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Yes this is my ego stepping in, but I'm wondering if that fact that I'm having second thoughts means the first isn't good enough.

I'm in high school and there's this girl that I can definitely f*** this weekend...like it's been confirmed by the girl and everything.

But she's borderline hot to me. She's hot some days but other days...not so much. Like today she had her hair up in a ponytail like she had just gotten out of the shower, glasses on, baggy sweatpants showing off an a$$ that isn't really there, and a black hoody...

I mean what the f*** I can't tell if this girl is going to be hot or not when I get her naked, and I'm just not sure I should lay this chick, as opposed to going out and getting hotter ones. This girl is attractive to me because she looks kinda good and is easy and available. She's no supermodel that gets me hard on sight or anything.

So...would you hit it if you were in the same situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As far as i'm concerned if you're not repulsed by her and get a boner when thinking of her sexually i'd go for it.
 
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Mmmm sounds to me like your being to fussy, if u really want to know what she looks like naked, make it happen and get fired in

If its a rubbish ride just don't go back for seconds, me personally, I've ****ed everything from size 6 to size 16, if she's really extra repulsive with her kit off it's nothing abit of oral sex on her part doesn't fix

In short, hit that sh!t
 
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Dude, just stop being a pvssy and go for it. There are more pros than cons. Don't hesitate; create.
 
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I say go for it. If after hitting it you don't feel it, then you can ease off. If anything it will keep your skills/tools sharp for when something hotter comes around. You don't want to be lasting 20 seconds with a hotter piece of tail... ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bro go for it I bet you in 10 years she will be a dime piece and all the super hot girls now will be hags. Once you bang this girl it will boost your confidence and you can hook up with more girls!
 
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BPH said:
But she's borderline hot to me. She's hot some days but other days...not so much. Like today she had her hair up in a ponytail like she had just gotten out of the shower, glasses on, baggy sweatpants showing off an a$$ that isn't really there, and a black hoody...
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Few girls are hot at all times, most need at least a bit of preparation with clothing and/or makeup. That's actually the final criteria a woman needs to pass for me rank her as a 9: does she look hot no matter how she is dressed and how little makeup she's wearing?
 
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Zerro said:
Few girls are hot at all times, most need at least a bit of preparation with clothing and/or makeup. That's actually the final criteria a woman needs to pass for me rank her as a 9: does she look hot no matter how she is dressed and how little makeup she's wearing?
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I can understand that, but I at least want the body to be there. And to wataf, I don't care how she will look in 10 years, I care how she looks now.

I've f***ed 2 other girls so far and the first was a beauty pageant girl and the second was the hottest Asian in school...this girl's appeal comes from her being an easy lay. I really don't think I wanna hit this.

If it were on the same day when I arranged this, when I was really horny, maybe...but the more I have time to think about it the less I like this idea.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't do it.
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Roger that.

If you are in doubt, do not proceed, do not collect $200.

Evacuate the situation immediately and report to the nearest RV point.

When dealing with women or anything else in life you should be 100% sure it is what you definitely want. If there is a 1% doubt in your mind then do not go through with it.

Always be 100% sure that whatever it is you plan do it is given 100% effort on your part also. With this lesson in mind you should come out the otherside relatively unscathed.
 
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