“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a # without a face. What should I do?

Epic

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My cousin called today and she said that one of her co-workers daughters is looking for people to date. She told her a little about me and that I was single. She told my cousin to give me her number. My cousin gave her my number too. She is 19 and goes to a college that is really far away, I don't know if she lives nearby or drives there everyday. Anyway, I began thinking about it and I don't really like the idea that I don't know what she looks like. I mean, my cousin is a girl and they have different opinions of what's beautiful than we do. Her age makes me a little uncomfortable as well, I'm about to turn 18 but I don't know exactly how old she is, she could be about to turn 20 for all I know, and I don't like that she is older than I am. Anyway, what would some of you more experienced Don's do?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Go for it, if you dont like her (physically, emotionally, whatever you want her for), you next her. If you next her for some obvious reason, have a talk with your cousin about this.
 

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dont expect anything and stop thinking what she looks like. Only go on a date if it fits your schedule not hers.
 

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Originally posted by vdk
dont expect anything and stop thinking what she looks like. Only go on a date if it fits your schedule not hers.
yep yep
 

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Go out with her man, don't feel obliged to keep seeing her after one date. Any oppertunity for experience should be taken without hesitation. Unless you date ppl all the time, then just do what ever the hell you feel like.

Santos
 

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Meeting people you don't know is GREAT practice. That was one of the best things I got out of online dating.

So does your cousin say she's cute? Yeah, girls have a different way of evaluating looks. But I'm sure that if you're cousin says the girl is cute, she won't be a total dog or anything.
 

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Go for it bro.

Take it from me, i got a chance to date a twenty year old when i was 18, and it was the best learning experience i ever recieved. Since she is a bit older there are many things she can teach you about sex and relationships. Have fun with her, and don't take it too seriously.
 

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Thanks guys, you make a good point. It's not like I asked for her number. It would help me get used to talking to people I don't know. You make a very good point, Last_Reign, it's not everyday I get to date a 19 year old. :cool: Besides, if she does look good, my friends will be very jealous!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This actually happened to me once.. Turns out the girl was one of the best looking girlfriends I have ever had.
 
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