“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a ton of energy. Probably too much

Ricky

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I have a ton of energy. Lifting, running you name it.

why does it matter? Its a good thing right?

well it makes it tough to meet most women at their level. I can’t tell you how many women i know sleep in, don’t have the drive i have, don’t invest in themselves

i have golden retriever energy and its too much for them

the only women that could handle it were the party girls and they are terribly destructive for my life. Been there, done that

I am not saying this to brag at all. One of my best women friends who i have zero romantic interest is the same way. She is of course a party girl. Up early, up late, tons of energy life of the party.

i am frankly tired of giving more than i receive. At work, at home, with friends, with my daughters mom (wife doesnt really fit as a word for her now)

i am not saying this to whine. I just think maybe i am hitting that need for my retreat to the woods moment. I am in a beach town currently, its relaxing but i frankly am just a little down today. I will be ok
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm similar in age as you and my energy level has been high all of my life. I don't like sitting still and am always doing something or going somewhere. As friends my age have gotten older they have started dragging me down with their boring/lazy, rather do nothing approach to middle age.

My solution has been to date younger women and keep younger friends around.

Its the more submissive younger women that are always up for whatever and whenever which is how I like to live life. I don't have time for television, social media, or sitting around.

Work hard and play hard is where its at. And if I can't find anyone to go along with me, I have no problem gong alone.
 

Ricky

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I'm similar in age as you and my energy level has been high all of my life. I don't like sitting still and am always doing something or going somewhere. As friends my age have gotten older they have started dragging me down with their boring/lazy, rather do nothing approach to middle age.

My solution has been to date younger women and keep younger friends around.

Its the more submissive younger women that are always up for whatever and whenever which is how I like to live life. I don't have time for television, social media, or sitting around.

Work hard and play hard is where its at. And if I can't find anyone to go along with me, I have no problem gong alone.
Thanks for the reply. I love this.
 
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