I have a theory about pick up artists after watching videos etc it just hit me , not going to mention any names but I honestly think a lot of them a closet gay guys , I will tell you why because they have zero approach anxiety , which is normal to have any way , one of the main pick up artists Atm , from his mannerisms I think he is 100 percent gay!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have a theory about pick up artists after watching videos etc it just hit me
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You having approach anxiety does not make men that don't gay.
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No what I'm saying is every one gets approach anxiety natrually , but some of these so called pick up artists pretend to be attracted to women , which makes it even easier for them to sell guys boot camps , and say look how easy this is , I honestly think there are gay pua instructors, think about it there not attracted to women they pretend they are , go in and flirt etc easy money !!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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