I have a theory about pick up artists after watching videos etc it just hit me , not going to mention any names but I honestly think a lot of them a closet gay guys , I will tell you why because they have zero approach anxiety , which is normal to have any way , one of the main pick up artists Atm , from his mannerisms I think he is 100 percent gay!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have a theory about pick up artists after watching videos etc it just hit me
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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You having approach anxiety does not make men that don't gay.
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No what I'm saying is every one gets approach anxiety natrually , but some of these so called pick up artists pretend to be attracted to women , which makes it even easier for them to sell guys boot camps , and say look how easy this is , I honestly think there are gay pua instructors, think about it there not attracted to women they pretend they are , go in and flirt etc easy money !!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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