I have a socially crippling problem.

[Reichskanzler]

First post. Don't be too hard on this n00b.

Throughout all of my life, I have made acquaintances with people (males and females) with effort. However, once I am on a first name basis with that person everything seems to stagnate. We exchange a simple "hi" when we see each other and what not, but I never know how to make the transition from acquaintance to friend. Thus, literally, I have never had a friend before. This includes males (I am unable to develop friendships with them as well) and females.

I would think that an integral building block in eventually developing a romantic relationship with a woman would be to establish an ability to move from a "school acquaintance" to a friend that they have contact with out of school as well. This problem has plagued me for years, and I have no idea how things are supposed to happen so that the "relationship" will become more than just a basic knowledge of their existence. I would like to be able to establish friendships with other people. Lacking a groups of friends, I probably look pathetic and women are most likely only talking to me occasionally because they know that I am socially inept and are taking pity upon me. What do the lot of you think?

 

[we all eat food]

Same here, you just goto to be a patient and work one step at a time, and remeber you only live one life.

 

[immrtlwun]

Read and follow the DJ bible and try one of the bootcamps if you're up for it.

 

[johnm420]

ya im in a bootcamp rite now and its really helpful

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Hey man I suggest signing up for my bootcamp at the site in my signature. By 6 weeks you will become an automatic pickup machine at your school.

~Smooth