"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this sunday some people are hanging out in time square.
2 of my friends (a couple) and 3 other girls. one of the girls is interested in me. i barely know her at all. on the highschool scale shes a 5.

so my question is should i go for her just for experience. by go for her, i mean make out. i am not attracted at all and i doubt i will ever be. but right now i'm trying to get more comfortable around girls.

what do you guys think?
oh and this girl goes to my school so i'm going to see her again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just make sure if you do anything with her you don't ruin your chances with other girls, especially if you go to the same high school with her. Drama is always around in high school and it spreads fast, so be careful.
 
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nyc123 said:
this sunday some people are hanging out in time square.
2 of my friends (a couple) and 3 other girls. one of the girls is interested in me. i barely know her at all. on the highschool scale shes a 5.

so my question is should i go for her just for experience. by go for her, i mean make out. i am not attracted at all and i doubt i will ever be. but right now i'm trying to get more comfortable around girls.

what do you guys think?
oh and this girl goes to my school so i'm going to see her again.
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If you're thinking if you should kiss her or not, then you should.

Even if she is a UG, your social status will go up. They'll be thinking "What does she have that I don't."

Have Fun & Improve Everyday!

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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B-Lemond said:
They'll be thinking "What does she have that I don't."
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Or they will be thinking "Where are his standards?".

If she's ugly and you don't want her, just move to the next girl. The theory of social proof can and often will backfire.
 
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KillaCam said:
Or they will be thinking "Where are his standards?".

If she's ugly and you don't want her, just move to the next girl. The theory of social proof can and often will backfire.
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HAHA :crackup:

It mostly depends on him for that one to occur.

Either way, it's the way you act about it that will get you the positive or negative reaction.

I just like being positive, thus I only told him the positive results...:up:
 
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True that ;)

I just hope he is positive and aims high. Don't settle for the dud :D
 
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