"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this sunday some people are hanging out in time square.
2 of my friends (a couple) and 3 other girls. one of the girls is interested in me. i barely know her at all. on the highschool scale shes a 5.

so my question is should i go for her just for experience. by go for her, i mean make out. i am not attracted at all and i doubt i will ever be. but right now i'm trying to get more comfortable around girls.

what do you guys think?
oh and this girl goes to my school so i'm going to see her again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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just make sure if you do anything with her you don't ruin your chances with other girls, especially if you go to the same high school with her. Drama is always around in high school and it spreads fast, so be careful.
 
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nyc123 said:
this sunday some people are hanging out in time square.
2 of my friends (a couple) and 3 other girls. one of the girls is interested in me. i barely know her at all. on the highschool scale shes a 5.

so my question is should i go for her just for experience. by go for her, i mean make out. i am not attracted at all and i doubt i will ever be. but right now i'm trying to get more comfortable around girls.

what do you guys think?
oh and this girl goes to my school so i'm going to see her again.
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If you're thinking if you should kiss her or not, then you should.

Even if she is a UG, your social status will go up. They'll be thinking "What does she have that I don't."

Have Fun & Improve Everyday!

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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B-Lemond said:
They'll be thinking "What does she have that I don't."
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Or they will be thinking "Where are his standards?".

If she's ugly and you don't want her, just move to the next girl. The theory of social proof can and often will backfire.
 
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Or they will be thinking "Where are his standards?".

If she's ugly and you don't want her, just move to the next girl. The theory of social proof can and often will backfire.
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HAHA :crackup:

It mostly depends on him for that one to occur.

Either way, it's the way you act about it that will get you the positive or negative reaction.

I just like being positive, thus I only told him the positive results...:up:
 
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True that ;)

I just hope he is positive and aims high. Don't settle for the dud :D
 
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