I had a car accident were I was paralized for 6 months. I walk and have been walking for about 3 years. I am close to making a full recovery. I walk with a limp, not bad tho. I dont drive yet. I got a g/f and she drives. You think its wrong that the girls picks me up? I will drive soon but Im saying right now i dont drive. Girl tell me she dont mind but still. I met this other chick at school and she drives too.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have a problem
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think your inability to post a clear question and communicate in a proper manner is probably the biggest roadblock to your success with women.
I really have no idea what specifically you are trying to ask.
Do girls like guys that can drive w/o depending on them all the time for a ride? Ya, it usually helps when you get a date with a chick and when you ask them out you can say, "Yea, I'll pick you up at 8" but you might come off as a pimp if you tell them to pick you up too.
Soooooo....
I really have no idea what specifically you are trying to ask.
Do girls like guys that can drive w/o depending on them all the time for a ride? Ya, it usually helps when you get a date with a chick and when you ask them out you can say, "Yea, I'll pick you up at 8" but you might come off as a pimp if you tell them to pick you up too.
Soooooo....
HalfAddict
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Yes you do have a problem..
You have not read the ****ing bible yet.
Go do it.
You have not read the ****ing bible yet.
Go do it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OneArmDeeJay
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Naw brotha aint’ nothing wrong.
You know your pimpin’ when you got your lady driving anywhere you want.
I love it when the guy is at store say like a video game store or grocery store and they have tons of stuff and what I see next I just can’t help but grin. Does the man whip out his wallet and pay? NO. His women (not married) opens her check book, cold cash, or plastic and buys him all this crap while he is messing around playing some video game. And the best part I liked about what I saw was while she paid for it and was ready to go he was like hold on I want to check this out and they stayed an extra 6 mins. Got to love that.
So don’t sweet it my friend you know your doing something right when your women is driving you places and buying you things.
Play on Playa! Play on!
You know your pimpin’ when you got your lady driving anywhere you want.
I love it when the guy is at store say like a video game store or grocery store and they have tons of stuff and what I see next I just can’t help but grin. Does the man whip out his wallet and pay? NO. His women (not married) opens her check book, cold cash, or plastic and buys him all this crap while he is messing around playing some video game. And the best part I liked about what I saw was while she paid for it and was ready to go he was like hold on I want to check this out and they stayed an extra 6 mins. Got to love that.
So don’t sweet it my friend you know your doing something right when your women is driving you places and buying you things.
Play on Playa! Play on!
SparkleMotion
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Yeah don't worry about women driving you around. I have a friend who has his license and is capable of driving around, but he never drives anywhere. His brother or his girlfriend always drive him around.