I had a car accident were I was paralized for 6 months. I walk and have been walking for about 3 years. I am close to making a full recovery. I walk with a limp, not bad tho. I dont drive yet. I got a g/f and she drives. You think its wrong that the girls picks me up? I will drive soon but Im saying right now i dont drive. Girl tell me she dont mind but still. I met this other chick at school and she drives too.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I have a problem
- Thread starter gunit630
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think your inability to post a clear question and communicate in a proper manner is probably the biggest roadblock to your success with women.
I really have no idea what specifically you are trying to ask.
Do girls like guys that can drive w/o depending on them all the time for a ride? Ya, it usually helps when you get a date with a chick and when you ask them out you can say, "Yea, I'll pick you up at 8" but you might come off as a pimp if you tell them to pick you up too.
Soooooo....
I really have no idea what specifically you are trying to ask.
Do girls like guys that can drive w/o depending on them all the time for a ride? Ya, it usually helps when you get a date with a chick and when you ask them out you can say, "Yea, I'll pick you up at 8" but you might come off as a pimp if you tell them to pick you up too.
Soooooo....
HalfAddict
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Yes you do have a problem..
You have not read the ****ing bible yet.
Go do it.
You have not read the ****ing bible yet.
Go do it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
OneArmDeeJay
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Naw brotha aint’ nothing wrong.
You know your pimpin’ when you got your lady driving anywhere you want.
I love it when the guy is at store say like a video game store or grocery store and they have tons of stuff and what I see next I just can’t help but grin. Does the man whip out his wallet and pay? NO. His women (not married) opens her check book, cold cash, or plastic and buys him all this crap while he is messing around playing some video game. And the best part I liked about what I saw was while she paid for it and was ready to go he was like hold on I want to check this out and they stayed an extra 6 mins. Got to love that.
So don’t sweet it my friend you know your doing something right when your women is driving you places and buying you things.
Play on Playa! Play on!
You know your pimpin’ when you got your lady driving anywhere you want.
I love it when the guy is at store say like a video game store or grocery store and they have tons of stuff and what I see next I just can’t help but grin. Does the man whip out his wallet and pay? NO. His women (not married) opens her check book, cold cash, or plastic and buys him all this crap while he is messing around playing some video game. And the best part I liked about what I saw was while she paid for it and was ready to go he was like hold on I want to check this out and they stayed an extra 6 mins. Got to love that.
So don’t sweet it my friend you know your doing something right when your women is driving you places and buying you things.
Play on Playa! Play on!
SparkleMotion
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Yeah don't worry about women driving you around. I have a friend who has his license and is capable of driving around, but he never drives anywhere. His brother or his girlfriend always drive him around.