In one of my classes, there are always a few girls staring at me... It's also the only class that has a view so that I can see women and the rest can see me... my other classes are either full of men or all facing one way. I consider myself funny and not ugly also. The problem is that I can't tell if they are staring at me because they hate me or if they like me... and I don't want everyone staring at me either.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have a problem...
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