In one of my classes, there are always a few girls staring at me... It's also the only class that has a view so that I can see women and the rest can see me... my other classes are either full of men or all facing one way. I consider myself funny and not ugly also. The problem is that I can't tell if they are staring at me because they hate me or if they like me... and I don't want everyone staring at me either.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have a problem...
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