"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have a problem

BxPrince24

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I can't go more than 3-4 hours without eating. The closer it gets to 4 hours or so, the worse I get. It's like I get gas, not the type of gas that makes you fart but it like goes to my head and I get dizzy and nausea, which eventually leads to a migrane and indigestion with the urge to vomit. My eyes get sensitive to light.

When I eat, I eat a good amount of food, maybe more than I should, but the less I eat, the sooner then symptoms start coming on.

Is there a reason why things are like this? I used to be able to live off 2 meals a day, now I feel like I'm about to die if I don't eat before or when the symptoms start.

I usually treat this by taking pepto bismol when I can't get anything to eat. If I take it early then the problems will usually go away or pause for about another hour or so and then resume. If I take it late, then I need to sleep in order to get everything back to normal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shaunuk

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Do you train? Weight training generally makes me wanna eat more..and I do get cranky if I go a while without eating. Though not how you do, hmm :)

-shaun
 

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I can't go 3 hours with out eating. Its due to me trying to eat all the time and BJJ+lifting
 

BxPrince24

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shaunuk said:
Do you train? Weight training generally makes me wanna eat more..and I do get cranky if I go a while without eating. Though not how you do, hmm :)

-shaun
every now and then. I find that after a real good work out, if I don't eat something right after I'm done, in about 30 minutes I get the symptoms fast and bad. To the point where I feel like I'm going to pass out.
 

BxPrince24

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spesmilitis said:
I can't go 3 hours with out eating. Its due to me trying to eat all the time and BJJ+lifting
I could understand if it's from working out, but i don't even work out on a regular basis, and I used to be able to last a day on 2 or so meals. If I were stranded on an island, i'm sure that I'd die in a day or so if I have nothing at all to eat. The pain from the migraines are that intense. I hate having them. I have to walk with a bottle of pepto bismol in my pocket at all times.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How old are you and are you overweight? What you are describing is hypoglycemia. Hypoglycemia can be the cause of many diseases/disorders. You need to go to a doctor and tell him your symptoms.
 

BxPrince24

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Viroid said:
How old are you and are you overweight? What you are describing is hypoglycemia. Hypoglycemia can be the cause of many diseases/disorders. You need to go to a doctor and tell him your symptoms.
I'm 19 and I guess I'm a little overweight but it doesn't really show. I'm 5'10 and I weight 220lbs. My build looks stocky more than chubby.
 
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