"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Maybe you need to read it again. Let me rephrase this: I was telling her to show the dude she is interested.

I was telling her to be nice and sweet and touch the guy and laugh at his jokes. If you think this is advice that works for a guy in this day and age.... you're REALLY screwed in the head.
If you can't debate don't post here.

The guy already had her lying down and let her take off her bra. No point for her to be nice sweet and touch the guy to show him that she likes him,because it is irrelevent after what already transpired. I am just suprised how this chick is still hanging around this guy because most of them would have already left his ass for a guy who knows WTF he is doing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJDamage said:
If you can't debate don't post here.

The guy already had her lying down and let her take off her bra. No point for her to be nice sweet and touch the guy to show him that she likes him,because it is irrelevent after what already transpired. I am just suprised how this chick is still hanging around this guy because most of them would have already left his ass for a guy who knows WTF he is doing.
Well after what happened this weekend it's time I next this guy. I think he just likes the idea of someone wanting him.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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DJDamage said:
The guy already had her lying down and let her take off her bra.
That I overlooked. I agree here. He had her just where he wanted... wtf was he thinking not going all the way? Maybe he's in the closet?


If you can't debate don't post here.
Debate - argue: have an argument about something
Source - http://wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=debate


Maybe you need to take some elementary english classes. I reccomend you read the newspaper, or a book. It does wonders for you vocabulary. Really.
 

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If he can't see how much you're into him by now, he's really clueless. The only time I've balked at getting physical with a gal who was obviously into me was because I wasn't interested enough. Sometimes it was to protect her heart, because I wasn't interested in her long-term, though I was attracted enough to have sex, if she were in it just for that. It really looks like he's somewhat into you, but not enough to really commit. Either that, or he has some issues with getting sexual.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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