I'm here to get a kick in the a$$ from people here.
I am having trouble with day game. Lately, the only time i talk to new girls is during night time when i have some alcohol in me and since i don't go out every weekend/number close I haven't been having much success.
On top of that, i have AA. I am not scared of rejection/failure from the approach i am just scared of the approach itself.
I'm a fairly decent looking guy and am getting in a lot better shape. I'm aiming to be in good enough shape to look like a model. I'm 5'11, 180lbs, swim, run, play ball, bench, dl, and squat.
I've done a fair share of cold day approaches and failed (only between 30-50). I know exactly why i've failed which is because of my anxiety build up and i show nervousness (this then turns into creepiness). It's hard to get over the AA. I'm actually a pretty smooth guy if i don't have AA.
I actually get a rush from approaches but i haven't built that comfortability into my style.
I see a lot of opportunities but i never can break out the shell to approach.
I've been ashamed of myself lately as well or should i say disappointed.
My good friend passed away 4 years ago. I made a promise to myself and to him in his memory that I would live my life to my fullest. All the fun his missed out on in life i would enjoy for him, I would work extra hard including his portion of work in order to achieve mine and his success.
My best friend recently also brought to my attention he gets more numbers in a relationship than when i am single. He has no problem cold approaching and gets many numbers. When i thought about this about how pitiful i was that i couldn't even talk to a women when i wanted to, i felt disappointed.
I am generally a man of my word and not being able to keep my word really urks me to the point of annoyment.
I've was never that great at conquering my fears individually but i would find ways to do it. Since i could never live with letting people down i would convince my boy to talk to a girl first and if he did i would. Since he would do it, i forced myself to do it to keep my word.
I don't know how to break out of this shell and hopefully a push from you guys can get me over the edge.
I am having trouble with day game. Lately, the only time i talk to new girls is during night time when i have some alcohol in me and since i don't go out every weekend/number close I haven't been having much success.
On top of that, i have AA. I am not scared of rejection/failure from the approach i am just scared of the approach itself.
I'm a fairly decent looking guy and am getting in a lot better shape. I'm aiming to be in good enough shape to look like a model. I'm 5'11, 180lbs, swim, run, play ball, bench, dl, and squat.
I've done a fair share of cold day approaches and failed (only between 30-50). I know exactly why i've failed which is because of my anxiety build up and i show nervousness (this then turns into creepiness). It's hard to get over the AA. I'm actually a pretty smooth guy if i don't have AA.
I actually get a rush from approaches but i haven't built that comfortability into my style.
I see a lot of opportunities but i never can break out the shell to approach.
I've been ashamed of myself lately as well or should i say disappointed.
My good friend passed away 4 years ago. I made a promise to myself and to him in his memory that I would live my life to my fullest. All the fun his missed out on in life i would enjoy for him, I would work extra hard including his portion of work in order to achieve mine and his success.
My best friend recently also brought to my attention he gets more numbers in a relationship than when i am single. He has no problem cold approaching and gets many numbers. When i thought about this about how pitiful i was that i couldn't even talk to a women when i wanted to, i felt disappointed.
I am generally a man of my word and not being able to keep my word really urks me to the point of annoyment.
I've was never that great at conquering my fears individually but i would find ways to do it. Since i could never live with letting people down i would convince my boy to talk to a girl first and if he did i would. Since he would do it, i forced myself to do it to keep my word.
I don't know how to break out of this shell and hopefully a push from you guys can get me over the edge.