"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i have a problem that i beleive everyone on this board would not mind having

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I just recently got a job at a big bra and panty store in my city. Besides the pretty good pay
There is also a huge surplus of hot and cute girls :). Also from what I have seen so far their is very few competition seeing as most guys their are gay or married so its basically easy pickins for me. Now my question is how do I go about this? I mean there are a lot of grls tht I would really like to mess around with there but is there a way tht I can mess around with a lot of them without them knowing or at least being cool with it? A lot of them have expressed interest and have been very touchy feely with me these past days so I dnt want to be tied town to just one of them. So some help would be greatly appreciated guys.
Also before any of you say not to mess with grls at work I would like to say I am aware of the risks and have decided to go foraward as this is just a summer to christmas job at best.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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any help? im not trying to brag or nething i just dk what to do
 

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Get the numbers from the ones your interested in and date them all at the same time. Don't worry about what they will think. Kitty Kats Kompete. Even if they find out what you're doing, they're just going to want you more.
 

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Also...

Don't talk about the other girls when you're with one (should be obvious), and act professionally at work.
 

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real2 said:
Smile and flirt back. Look into their eyes, "is there anything I can help you with?"

I hope your a decent looking guy with a nice smile, in which case... your gonna get laid SOOOO many times :whistle:
haha well ive been told im good looking with a great smile. :rockon: and most of the grls have been flirting with me whenever i ask them a question about where something goes and they always initiate kino first :) but my question is white rabbit wont the othe grls lose interest if i lay just one girl i mean if i lay one or date one wont they stop and say oh hes a player or oh hes seeing someone and thus ruining a really good situation to get some expericence down?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhtRbt

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dmatter said:
my question is white rabbit wont the othe grls lose interest if i lay just one girl i mean if i lay one or date one wont they stop and say oh hes a player or oh hes seeing someone and thus ruining a really good situation to get some expericence down?
Why do you worry so much about what they will think? You want to date them all, right? So just do it. In your world, you date all the chicks at the panty store at the same time. No problem. I would too.

You have no competition. The girls want you. You are making up problems in your head. Just get the numbers and hang out with them one on one. If you want to experiement, try taking each girl on a different date. No problem. =)
 

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:) your right im overanalyzing. i will let you know how this goes
 

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Good luck bro. Though something tells me with a job like yours, surrounded by women, many of them attracted to you, you won't need any luck. :p
 
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