"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i have a problem that i beleive everyone on this board would not mind having

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I just recently got a job at a big bra and panty store in my city. Besides the pretty good pay
There is also a huge surplus of hot and cute girls :). Also from what I have seen so far their is very few competition seeing as most guys their are gay or married so its basically easy pickins for me. Now my question is how do I go about this? I mean there are a lot of grls tht I would really like to mess around with there but is there a way tht I can mess around with a lot of them without them knowing or at least being cool with it? A lot of them have expressed interest and have been very touchy feely with me these past days so I dnt want to be tied town to just one of them. So some help would be greatly appreciated guys.
Also before any of you say not to mess with grls at work I would like to say I am aware of the risks and have decided to go foraward as this is just a summer to christmas job at best.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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any help? im not trying to brag or nething i just dk what to do
 

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Get the numbers from the ones your interested in and date them all at the same time. Don't worry about what they will think. Kitty Kats Kompete. Even if they find out what you're doing, they're just going to want you more.
 

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Also...

Don't talk about the other girls when you're with one (should be obvious), and act professionally at work.
 

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real2 said:
Smile and flirt back. Look into their eyes, "is there anything I can help you with?"

I hope your a decent looking guy with a nice smile, in which case... your gonna get laid SOOOO many times :whistle:
haha well ive been told im good looking with a great smile. :rockon: and most of the grls have been flirting with me whenever i ask them a question about where something goes and they always initiate kino first :) but my question is white rabbit wont the othe grls lose interest if i lay just one girl i mean if i lay one or date one wont they stop and say oh hes a player or oh hes seeing someone and thus ruining a really good situation to get some expericence down?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dmatter said:
my question is white rabbit wont the othe grls lose interest if i lay just one girl i mean if i lay one or date one wont they stop and say oh hes a player or oh hes seeing someone and thus ruining a really good situation to get some expericence down?
Why do you worry so much about what they will think? You want to date them all, right? So just do it. In your world, you date all the chicks at the panty store at the same time. No problem. I would too.

You have no competition. The girls want you. You are making up problems in your head. Just get the numbers and hang out with them one on one. If you want to experiement, try taking each girl on a different date. No problem. =)
 

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:) your right im overanalyzing. i will let you know how this goes
 

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Good luck bro. Though something tells me with a job like yours, surrounded by women, many of them attracted to you, you won't need any luck. :p
 
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