I have a problem kissing girls.

[Vice]

I've never kissed a girl. I've BEEN kissed, but I've never actually had lip-to-lip action.

And it's bothering me.

See, whenever I feel that the time is right to kiss her, I don't. I get really nervous and can't do it!

Has anyone else had this problem? New Year's is coming up and I'd like to get this solved by then.

 

[Mr. Wolf]

I checked out your page a few weeks ago. YOu don't look like someone who'd have this problem. No woman is going to call the cops on you if you do kiss her.

 

[Vice]

I checked out your page a few weeks ago. YOu don't look like someone who'd have this problem. No woman is going to call the cops on you if you do kiss her.

I have no idea what's stopping me.

And exactly what kind of vibe does my page create, anyway?

 

[Mr. Wolf]

I thought you were a pro.. But then you replied and opened your mouth.. Like I said before, I changed my mind.. You gotta be more friendly.. I'm not a best example of that. Talk to some other dudes on here to get the idea of this.

 

[Vice]

I thought you were a pro.. But then you replied and opened your mouth.. Like I said before, I changed my mind.. You gotta be more friendly.. I'm not a best example of that. Talk to some other dudes on here to get the idea of this.

I never said I was a pro! LOL

Oh, and when you sent me those PMs... I was a little surprised that someone on here would say something like that, so I started asking questions. My mistake. I got a little too excited lol

 

[iqqi]

^^^ you guys sound kinda gay.

1. don't slobber
2. use your tongue in a gentle, caressing way, not like a force of brute strength.
3. think SENSUAL
4. practise on your hand. I'm serious.
5. kissing should start playful. think of playing footsie, but with your tongue.
once you get playful kissing down, then you can do other kissing.

 

[The Deacon]

Vice, kissing a girl for the first time is like trying to learn how to ride a two-wheel bike. It's scary at first, but when you get the ball rollin' you're like "wtf was I so scared about." Sometimes you f*** up, but you just get back on the bike and you keep going. You're just thinking about it too hard, and when you think too hard it really screws you up. Relax.

I think you're having the same problem I did, you're being hesitant cause you want everything to be perfect. When I first kissed a girl (I was 18, quite late), it wasn't like what you'd see in the movies. It was hella awkward. Some peoples' first kiss is f*cking perfect, but don't get too worried about the "perfect moment" and all that stupid bullsh*t cause there's never really a "perfect moment." If it's awkward, just accept it. It's cool, man, really. Only insecure douchebags are gonna be like "haha, you effed up, you don't know what you're doing, blah blah."

I checked your myspace. You're not a Brad Pitt or anything, but you're a handsome kid. Wolf is right, no girl's gonna call the cops if you make a move on her. Use the information on this site if you need to, but make it your FIRST priority to get outside of your comfort zone more than ANYTHING else.

Good luck.

 

[coacj]

good advice the deacon

 

[PeterCrouch]

Was in the exact same posistion as you fella. What I did was get stupidly drunk and therefore couldnt care less about being nervous or make myself look stupid and ****.

Job done. Nervousness gone.

 

[j0n024]

Awww I wanna see a pic now ..... lol. Good job they are giving you good tips hope everything works out and upload a pic!!! LOL.

 

[Vice]

Upload a pic of what?

 

[j0n024]

Of you silly lol...I dont have a myspace and I dont feel like making one sorry but I am lazy....

 

[Vice]

You don't need an account to see my profile! lol

 

[Mr. Wolf]

He just said that to show us that he never saw your picture. He never seen it, thus he couldn't have possibly jerked off over it. Clever move.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Vice your myspace is crazy!!! Girls will be droolin over that, something about it just radiates "player."

For the kissing thing, I suggest you use some kino right before...sorta like elevation to a kiss. And the real sensual kino, like brushing her hair behind her ear, stroking her hair, caressing her neck. All of those types of kino INDICATE to her that you are going to kiss her, and if she doesn't back out of it, from those kinocues, just confidently know that she WANTS the kiss so theres no need for anxiety/nervousness!

 

[Skepsis]

He just said that to show us that he never saw your picture. He never seen it, thus he couldn't have possibly jerked off over it. Clever move.

At the moment you’re wishing that you had adopted a similar tactic so that your transparency had gone on unobserved...

I noticed!

 

[PrinceBeavis]

When you kiss a girl, just start licking all over her face like a dog....chicks dig that. (sorry, I just felt like being a smartass)

 

[martinM.]

What is it in particular that makes you nervous?

 

[trojanman88]

this is where balls are handy

 

[Vice]

What is it in particular that makes you nervous?

Fear of success. I think that's what it is.