"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have a peculiar situation!

schttrj

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here is a male colleague of mine, who has a elder sister of his. now, i got her number by chance and i told him very jokingly that i'd call her sister and wnat to know her better, or that she looks good, and he was very cool with that. he in fact joked back on my sisters. now, one day, i sent a text to her sister, like an AFC, i dont know why and i dont regret also, since she was just a shot, it doesnt matter that much but i deff told her sister not to say anything to him because that might spoil our friendship. if she is willing, good otherwise im not going to bother her. like that. the next day onward, he is not speaking with me anymore, he is plainly avoiding me. i even told her noticing that i texted his sis and then also he acted like it doesnt matter but i can see it mattered. well, i think i have done something wrong here. but he knows that i like women, i mean, play women and i follow this pickup gurus.

i mean, of course, he has reason to be angry on me but come on, be a man and face me! i can rectify my mistake, aint it? wat do you all say?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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r0cky

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Well since your friendship is now ruined you can bang his siter and you won't have to worry about ruining your friendship anymore.
 

shaunuk

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ow Noob, all he did was txt the lad's sister. Why would you hit your friend for that?

I don't have any sisters so I can't really comment properly.
 

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Noob said:
well what the ****, do you expect him to say well done, and hand you a condom...

you shouldnt be ****ing around with your friends sisters anyway 'bros before hoes...'

if one of my friends did this with my sister, i would knock his fvckin block off
that's because you are insecure.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shaunuk

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Noob, as far as I'm concerned, a friend's sister is not off-limits. ****, why would it be? They're gonna get banged by somebody, and that's alright as long as it's not someone you know???
 

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shaunuk said:
Noob, as far as I'm concerned, a friend's sister is not off-limits. ****, why would it be? They're gonna get banged by somebody, and that's alright as long as it's not someone you know???
lol! i like the way how u put it but it just ruins friendships

cousins on the other hand is A-okay with me!
 

PectoralisMajor

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Be a man YOURSELF and talk to your friend about why his attitude seems different.

My 50 cent is his sister showed the text you sent, which was probably innapropriate / too forward in some way.

Did she reply to the text?? if not, and the text was ok, you messed up on two counts.....
 
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