"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i have a peculiar situation!

schttrj

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here is a male colleague of mine, who has a elder sister of his. now, i got her number by chance and i told him very jokingly that i'd call her sister and wnat to know her better, or that she looks good, and he was very cool with that. he in fact joked back on my sisters. now, one day, i sent a text to her sister, like an AFC, i dont know why and i dont regret also, since she was just a shot, it doesnt matter that much but i deff told her sister not to say anything to him because that might spoil our friendship. if she is willing, good otherwise im not going to bother her. like that. the next day onward, he is not speaking with me anymore, he is plainly avoiding me. i even told her noticing that i texted his sis and then also he acted like it doesnt matter but i can see it mattered. well, i think i have done something wrong here. but he knows that i like women, i mean, play women and i follow this pickup gurus.

i mean, of course, he has reason to be angry on me but come on, be a man and face me! i can rectify my mistake, aint it? wat do you all say?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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r0cky

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Well since your friendship is now ruined you can bang his siter and you won't have to worry about ruining your friendship anymore.
 

shaunuk

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ow Noob, all he did was txt the lad's sister. Why would you hit your friend for that?

I don't have any sisters so I can't really comment properly.
 

Vypros

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Noob said:
well what the ****, do you expect him to say well done, and hand you a condom...

you shouldnt be ****ing around with your friends sisters anyway 'bros before hoes...'

if one of my friends did this with my sister, i would knock his fvckin block off
that's because you are insecure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shaunuk

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Noob, as far as I'm concerned, a friend's sister is not off-limits. ****, why would it be? They're gonna get banged by somebody, and that's alright as long as it's not someone you know???
 

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shaunuk said:
Noob, as far as I'm concerned, a friend's sister is not off-limits. ****, why would it be? They're gonna get banged by somebody, and that's alright as long as it's not someone you know???
lol! i like the way how u put it but it just ruins friendships

cousins on the other hand is A-okay with me!
 

PectoralisMajor

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Be a man YOURSELF and talk to your friend about why his attitude seems different.

My 50 cent is his sister showed the text you sent, which was probably innapropriate / too forward in some way.

Did she reply to the text?? if not, and the text was ok, you messed up on two counts.....
 
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