"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a natural angry face

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When i completely relax my face, i tend to look very very upset. Normally when i go around school or hang out with friends, i try to raise my eyebrows so i look more subtle. I was wondering, what do you guys think i should do? I think this often gives others the wrong impression about how i truely am, since i am typically not an angry person.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In high school this was also sort of a problem for me too. Even when I wasn't I looked like I was pissed off. What I did was literally stare in the mirror for like an hour and force myself to look relaxed and more normal.
 

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I have the same problem right now. Environments growing up have given me the instinctual reaction to, when in public, put on what I call my 'street face'. :p

People say I look really intimidating. Funny sometimes -- but not good for dating girls. I don't know if it matters that much. I'm still able to get girls. But I don't know any way to solve it either...

I'll try to do what Beta said and see if that works. hm.
 

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Well it looks like is common,same to me except that for some strange reason it help me to get the bad girls. :D
The problem was with school teachers who though i was challenging them,poor idiots who cared about their "lessons of life" or afc propaganda.
 

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Haha I've got this same problem too. People are always telling me to cheer up and I'm fine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smile.
 

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Just asking to see the reason of it,does any of you had family problems or a "first strike than ask questions" life as teenager?
 

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Well for me it's actually a family thing. My uncle always looks pissed off when he's talking to me and he's actually really really good with people...he's a doctor. My dad also has the same problem, he looks like he's always mad even when it's as simple as asking for the remote.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I see but actually i had other stuff in my mind.
Having a "street face" its common of people who had problems in their life like dealing with a**holes at school,with criminals outside or even abusive parents in childhood.
In those case a man become weak as shlt or strong as stone,and both of the case it can be seen through his face.
 

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Son of anarchy said:
Just asking to see the reason of it,does any of you had family problems or a "first strike than ask questions" life as teenager?

Horrible childhood. Still in progress. Gave me a rather mean face as a younger child growing up, I believe...

So true for me.

...Also Street Life situations.
 

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kraytkiller said:
Horrible childhood. Still in progress. Gave me a rather mean face as a younger child growing up, I believe...

So true for me.

...Also Street Life situations.
Yeah i think thats the point,of all the bad people im friend most of them with that kind of "street face" had problems through childhood and teenage life with parents,teachers and whatever kind of "authority".
It look like that "street face" is like disclaimer where you say that you already had your ball busted and unwilling to have anymore,subconsciously.
 

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hm....i think it's part street face and part confidence
well for me at least

i grew up around some pretty shady charcters...drug dealers/gang members...all that ****...but they were nice to me cause i was young...basically i knew them on a more friendly level..but i saw what went down...and also i had some other traumatic expereiences that were very personal...that was part of it

the other part was my confidence level...i was so self-conscious during my first year of high school that i tried to fake confidence...and kept that stoic face

now, i'm happy all the time...my confidence is genuine...and girls are definitely noticing...
my face is usually that stoic face during class...but when i'm talking or it's interactive...i smile more and have a different expression...and it's done me wonders..as long as your face isn't "i'm angry" but more of a silent/sexy/confident one...you're good...sorta like denzel in all his movies
 
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