"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Have a Major Problem....

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Alright... well as of recently, I have found myself to hate.... actually LOATHE cetain girls that I meet. These girls, who i assume to be unattainable, are usually extremely ****y, conceited, stuck-up, "better than me" etc etc... and although they may not act tahat way to me (although some do).... it bothers me and causes me to lsoe my game. For instance, my friend and i dropped these 2 chicks home tonite. My friend was driving, the "nice" chick in the front, myself in the back stuck with the *****. At first glance she had that kidna vibe, but i decided to give it a shot. Wellll she totally "ignored" me and answeredmy questions shortly and rudely, never even facing me or makign eye conact. I made kino, and she didnt mind at all. At one time she picked up her Sidekick,,, put it by her ear and told me to "shut up". Being around these "DIVA"s significantly throws off my game. It makes mt extremely delf-conscious, and "lowly"... and totally ruins and momentum and good mood i might have. How can i deal with them , other than "ignoring them" ?because sometimes that just insnt possible. Thanks a lot ...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ohh sy.. where should this be placed ?
 
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Don't worry about where this should be, it'll be handled.

Anyways, they are pure *****es, and really, I wouldn't waste the time dealing with them.
 
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A couple of suggestions...

A) As soon as they are rude, ditch them and stop wasting your time. They blew their chance

B) Improve yourself to the point where they are kissing YOUR ass

C) Learn how to knock them off their pedestal (search this tips forum, there's plenty of info)

I'm sorry, but a lot of women act this way to deter guys they aren't interested in. They also suffer from arrogance because they have so many guys feeding their egos. You need to put yourself on the pedestal one way or another.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like he said.."..a lot of women act this way to deter guys they aren't interested in"

She probly thought you were an afc, and you proved her right. Like you said, they probly don't act that way, she's probly not a *****. But she most likely wasn't interested in you, and you were trying to pick her up. Next time, neg her, and start teasing her. I'm guessing she was atleast an 8 or 9, treat her like her looks don't matter, and that your not interested.

Personally I think hoes like that are fun to pick up, becuase of the challenge involved.

-LC
 
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Well i tried to neg her... but she took it serioudly and told me to "shut up" haha. It was a first lmao ... and i think she was pretty seroius too . But its just that they throw off my game n ruin my mood and i just HATE bein around them ... I mean its a challenge n all but a real demoralizer too.
 
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