"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Have a Major Problem....

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Alright... well as of recently, I have found myself to hate.... actually LOATHE cetain girls that I meet. These girls, who i assume to be unattainable, are usually extremely ****y, conceited, stuck-up, "better than me" etc etc... and although they may not act tahat way to me (although some do).... it bothers me and causes me to lsoe my game. For instance, my friend and i dropped these 2 chicks home tonite. My friend was driving, the "nice" chick in the front, myself in the back stuck with the *****. At first glance she had that kidna vibe, but i decided to give it a shot. Wellll she totally "ignored" me and answeredmy questions shortly and rudely, never even facing me or makign eye conact. I made kino, and she didnt mind at all. At one time she picked up her Sidekick,,, put it by her ear and told me to "shut up". Being around these "DIVA"s significantly throws off my game. It makes mt extremely delf-conscious, and "lowly"... and totally ruins and momentum and good mood i might have. How can i deal with them , other than "ignoring them" ?because sometimes that just insnt possible. Thanks a lot ...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ohh sy.. where should this be placed ?
 
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Don't worry about where this should be, it'll be handled.

Anyways, they are pure *****es, and really, I wouldn't waste the time dealing with them.
 
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A couple of suggestions...

A) As soon as they are rude, ditch them and stop wasting your time. They blew their chance

B) Improve yourself to the point where they are kissing YOUR ass

C) Learn how to knock them off their pedestal (search this tips forum, there's plenty of info)

I'm sorry, but a lot of women act this way to deter guys they aren't interested in. They also suffer from arrogance because they have so many guys feeding their egos. You need to put yourself on the pedestal one way or another.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like he said.."..a lot of women act this way to deter guys they aren't interested in"

She probly thought you were an afc, and you proved her right. Like you said, they probly don't act that way, she's probly not a *****. But she most likely wasn't interested in you, and you were trying to pick her up. Next time, neg her, and start teasing her. I'm guessing she was atleast an 8 or 9, treat her like her looks don't matter, and that your not interested.

Personally I think hoes like that are fun to pick up, becuase of the challenge involved.

-LC
 
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Well i tried to neg her... but she took it serioudly and told me to "shut up" haha. It was a first lmao ... and i think she was pretty seroius too . But its just that they throw off my game n ruin my mood and i just HATE bein around them ... I mean its a challenge n all but a real demoralizer too.
 
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