"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a lack of sexual motivation latley.

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Its been a long time since I've been sweating with lust. I dont know what happened. I just dont have the slightest motivation anymore. I dont ever get erect without trying to like i used to.


Any tips? Is it a lack of testosterone?

:confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it could be but i highly doubt it as your only 17 (year younger than me).
have a read at this site:

http://www.menshealthsa.co.za/index.php?cat=22&art_id=887

aslong as your eating right and more importantly sleeping right then you should be fine, it might be a phase. dont worry about it just yet! and quit smoking if you do.
 

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How often are you masturbating?

If I skip a night (yes, I do it nightly) I'm pretty gung-ho the next day.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey what exactly do you mean by what you said? You don't feel like approaching lately? Or getting that first GF you wanted? Or what? I think I feel alike... and I need a good kick in the ass for it.
 

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i'd agree with zerix, you need to clarify a bit.

however, i'm with you too, sometimes it's just not there.

and it's weird, other times... horny as hell... sometimes though... just nothing lol :\
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido

not sure if this helps any

but read the psychology portion of the article

wikipedia said:
Libido can also be classified as the urge to copulate. For humanity, the natural way in which this occurs is through sex. However, at a deep unconscious level, the two can be merged as one, given the reason in evolutionary terms for sexual attraction and sex drive. Using this term, the antonym of libido is destrudo.

Reduction in libido can occur from psychological causes such as loss of privacy and/or intimacy, stress, distraction or depression. It may also derive from the presence of environmental stressors such as prolonged exposure to elevated sound levels or bright light.

Increased androgen steroids (e.g. testosterone) generally have a positive correlation with libido in both sexes.

According to Swiss psychologist Carl Gustav Jung, the libido is identified as psychic energy. Duality (opposition) that creates the energy (or libido) of the psyche, which Jung asserts expresses itself only through symbols: “It is the energy that manifests itself in the life process and is perceived subjectively as striving and desire.”(Ellenberger, 697)
 

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido

the psychology part of this should help some as well for the mental aspect. i'm not sure what the deal with diets could be though.

wikipedia said:
Libido can also be classified as the urge to copulate. For humanity, the natural way in which this occurs is through sex. However, at a deep unconscious level, the two can be merged as one, given the reason in evolutionary terms for sexual attraction and sex drive. Using this term, the antonym of libido is destrudo.

Reduction in libido can occur from psychological causes such as loss of privacy and/or intimacy, stress, distraction or depression. It may also derive from the presence of environmental stressors such as prolonged exposure to elevated sound levels or bright light.

Increased androgen steroids (e.g. testosterone) generally have a positive correlation with libido in both sexes.

According to Swiss psychologist Carl Gustav Jung, the libido is identified as psychic energy. Duality (opposition) that creates the energy (or libido) of the psyche, which Jung asserts expresses itself only through symbols: “It is the energy that manifests itself in the life process and is perceived subjectively as striving and desire.”(Ellenberger, 697)
 

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some of the posts in this thread are ridiculous, if you dont have something positive or helpful to say then go post at the misc. section at bodybuilding.com
 

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dtrg said:
some of the posts in this thread are ridiculous, if you dont have something positive or helpful to say then go post at the misc. section at bodybuilding.com
it's amazing what trolls can do to a thread.
 

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yea it's pretty simple your Masturbating way too much....your testosterome is low because you keep beating your meat....

don't whack-off for a good week garunteed your gonna wanna go after a chick...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dtrg said:
some of the posts in this thread are ridiculous, if you dont have something positive or helpful to say then go post at the misc. section at bodybuilding.com

what are you talking about??? this guy needed some help he's 17 how about you take post and go to bodybuilding.com....you've only posted what 16 times?? wow...

it seems no one can get help these days without guys like this critizing them its a shame...
 

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Badmannaz said:
yea it's pretty simple your Masturbating way too much....your testosterome is low because you keep beating your meat....

don't whack-off for a good week garunteed your gonna wanna go after a chick...


I hardly ever beat off.. thats the thing. I dont know. It looks like a phase thats all
 
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