"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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we all eat food

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now what?

since were a couple now me and this girl who iasked out today to be my gf said yes, what do i do now?




but like during the week what should i do. Keep in mind im 17 and this is my first gf.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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we all eat food said:
now what?

since were a couple now me and this girl who iasked out today to be my gf said yes, what do i do now?




but like during the week what should i do. Keep in mind im 17 and this is my first gf.
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First up, congrats! It's very hard to get your first GF!

We-ell... BIBLE IT UP. It has a few helpful tips in it (look in the First Date topics). Also, be sure to talk to her only a couple of times at school, and do not stick to her like glue by phoning her, talking to her all the time, spending your entire lunch period with her etc. It'll make you too easy, and she'll lose interest. If she calls you too many times during the week before your first date, just tell her after a minute of conversation that you're busy, and that she'll have to talk to your later.

Take note how I worded that last sentence: "She'll have to talk to you later." That means that she will have to be the one initiating the contact, rather than you. Keep her on her toes man and good luck!
 
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ahhh, so she makes the contact, and only see her a couple times in school. got
 
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Haha, relax my man!

Congrats on gettin' your first official GF. Frankly, I don't really think you need to "Do" anything special. Just follow the three main DJ principles and you'll be fine:

1. You are the Prize (So that means doing what Mr. Rogers said)

2. Be sexual! (Go on...touch and kiss her)

3. Have fun!

You'll be fine if you follow that recipe.

oh, and remeber to take her out to a date or something this week ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yea man I just recently got my first girlfriend aswell. I'm also 17. I dk I don't pay TOO much attention to her. We do walk around school together in between classes for about 8/11 periods of the day. I see her maybe once or twice after school during each week and usually once on the weekends. We seem to be going great. So man jsut do what you do and I'm sure she'll be ok with it...just DO NOT become clingy...makes her a) lose interest and/or b) know she has ALL the power in the relationship and make you become her little bytch
 
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