"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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we all eat food

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now what?

since were a couple now me and this girl who iasked out today to be my gf said yes, what do i do now?




but like during the week what should i do. Keep in mind im 17 and this is my first gf.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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we all eat food said:
now what?

since were a couple now me and this girl who iasked out today to be my gf said yes, what do i do now?




but like during the week what should i do. Keep in mind im 17 and this is my first gf.
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First up, congrats! It's very hard to get your first GF!

We-ell... BIBLE IT UP. It has a few helpful tips in it (look in the First Date topics). Also, be sure to talk to her only a couple of times at school, and do not stick to her like glue by phoning her, talking to her all the time, spending your entire lunch period with her etc. It'll make you too easy, and she'll lose interest. If she calls you too many times during the week before your first date, just tell her after a minute of conversation that you're busy, and that she'll have to talk to your later.

Take note how I worded that last sentence: "She'll have to talk to you later." That means that she will have to be the one initiating the contact, rather than you. Keep her on her toes man and good luck!
 
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ahhh, so she makes the contact, and only see her a couple times in school. got
 
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Haha, relax my man!

Congrats on gettin' your first official GF. Frankly, I don't really think you need to "Do" anything special. Just follow the three main DJ principles and you'll be fine:

1. You are the Prize (So that means doing what Mr. Rogers said)

2. Be sexual! (Go on...touch and kiss her)

3. Have fun!

You'll be fine if you follow that recipe.

oh, and remeber to take her out to a date or something this week ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yea man I just recently got my first girlfriend aswell. I'm also 17. I dk I don't pay TOO much attention to her. We do walk around school together in between classes for about 8/11 periods of the day. I see her maybe once or twice after school during each week and usually once on the weekends. We seem to be going great. So man jsut do what you do and I'm sure she'll be ok with it...just DO NOT become clingy...makes her a) lose interest and/or b) know she has ALL the power in the relationship and make you become her little bytch
 
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