"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have a girlfriend

we all eat food

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now what?

since were a couple now me and this girl who iasked out today to be my gf said yes, what do i do now?





but like during the week what should i do. Keep in mind im 17 and this is my first gf.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr_rogers

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we all eat food said:
now what?

since were a couple now me and this girl who iasked out today to be my gf said yes, what do i do now?





but like during the week what should i do. Keep in mind im 17 and this is my first gf.
First up, congrats! It's very hard to get your first GF!

We-ell... BIBLE IT UP. It has a few helpful tips in it (look in the First Date topics). Also, be sure to talk to her only a couple of times at school, and do not stick to her like glue by phoning her, talking to her all the time, spending your entire lunch period with her etc. It'll make you too easy, and she'll lose interest. If she calls you too many times during the week before your first date, just tell her after a minute of conversation that you're busy, and that she'll have to talk to your later.

Take note how I worded that last sentence: "She'll have to talk to you later." That means that she will have to be the one initiating the contact, rather than you. Keep her on her toes man and good luck!
 

we all eat food

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ahhh, so she makes the contact, and only see her a couple times in school. got
 

Fender

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Haha, relax my man!

Congrats on gettin' your first official GF. Frankly, I don't really think you need to "Do" anything special. Just follow the three main DJ principles and you'll be fine:

1. You are the Prize (So that means doing what Mr. Rogers said)

2. Be sexual! (Go on...touch and kiss her)

3. Have fun!

You'll be fine if you follow that recipe.

oh, and remeber to take her out to a date or something this week ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yea man I just recently got my first girlfriend aswell. I'm also 17. I dk I don't pay TOO much attention to her. We do walk around school together in between classes for about 8/11 periods of the day. I see her maybe once or twice after school during each week and usually once on the weekends. We seem to be going great. So man jsut do what you do and I'm sure she'll be ok with it...just DO NOT become clingy...makes her a) lose interest and/or b) know she has ALL the power in the relationship and make you become her little bytch
 
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