Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I have a feeling that my GF is not trying her best to discourage men who hit on her

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Hello,

Long story short, many men hit on my GF and she tells me about them. My concern in particular is about these 2 guys in her office. They haven't stopped approaching so I have a feeling that she's not trying her best in discouraging them. She refuses to go out with them alright but she told me that she's not bold enough to tell them straight that she's taken and doesn't appreciate if they keep making a move on her. Though she's a shy one, I gotta admit. Am I being reasonable in feeling uncomfortable about this? Should I talk to her about this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just ignore **** tests like that. You could also make a joke of it. Your so cute when you are trying to make me jealous...said with a smile...how hard id it to say i have a bf?
 
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When a girl is truly into you she won't entertain thoughts of other guys. Whenever I was in a relationship where I had the dominant hand the girl was always looking down when walking, never gave eye contact to strangers, one word replies to any questions she got etc. That and she would cling to me like she was showing me off.

No matter what you do, do not try to control her or talk **** about the other guys, don't come off as insecure. She should be aware of your view on respect and if she isn't following that then dump/spin more plates or soft next her. No amount of yelling/fighting/complaining will get her to change her behavior. She has to do that.
 
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sorry I have to clarify that she does tell them that she's taken but only when they ask her about it. but if they make a move like asking her out or flirt or something, she just makes some excuse. she's not the confrontational type though so that fact plays some part.
 
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Look at her actions and why/how she is saying rather than take her responses for face value.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So you think it's ok your talking to guys? Listen b1tch either your loyal to me or not. You disgust me right now and I really DGAF anymore. peace biatch then you move on. she will come crawling back like a true slore she is.
 
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Usually something that grinds Tictac up the wrong way.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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OP, stop making excuses for her bad behaviour.

Any taken woman must say she has a bf when a guy flirts with her, asks her out etc., and this applies for ALL WOMEN.
Its just the right thing to do. And if she is not doing it...well, you have a problem there.

Just tell her once what she should do and show her you're mad. If she keeps doing the same...then you really have a problem.
 
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I would respond like, "Do whatever you want, I have my own sh!t aswell ".

Now this can have 2 reaction on her depending on how interested she's towards you or how much of an ego she has.

1) enjoy seeing your value climbing through the sky

Or

2) she backfires , dumps you and fcks the next guy she finds.

It's up to you to either be a man or stay like a chicken.
 
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