"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jae Em, that's actually a very interesting idea--letting her think you have a girlfriend. I'm going to try this and see what happens.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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me-give me your number and i'll give you a txt
her-I have a b/f
me-hard lines :D, when ya brake up give me a call
 
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Her: I have a boyfriend.

Me: Would you like a manfriend instead?

:p
 
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What do you do when a girl mentions her boyfriend when you' re on a date with her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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her: i have a boyfriend
me: great good for you.... it must be a great accomplishment for you. do you want me to call ripleys believe it or not?
 
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Excellent come back by you guys. Never get nervous or get disappointed (even if you are internally) give them a kick in ass with a better comeback.

Confuse them and confound them....when they try to play with u.
 
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Hey gud advice by Jae em. You have got the understanding Big Boy.

Post more you think you would like your friends to come back in this situations.
thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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a gurl from my block tried that same shyt on me so i said

HER; i have a b/f

You; You want another 1?

2 days later she tells me they broke up...
 
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two from deangelo's interview series:

her: i have a boyfriend
me: i just met you 20 seconds ago, and you're already telling me about your problems?

her: i have a boyfriend
me: i'm not interested in him, i'm interested in you
 
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Try this Nibun....


Her: "I have a boyfriend...."

You: " Mind over Matter "

Her: " Huh?....what do you mean ? "

You: " I don't MIND and he shouldn't MATTER ".
 
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She says she has a boyfriend?

Next time she says " I have a boyrfriend" try this:

Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Do you have a lot of fun with him?

Her: Why?... er... yes!

You: Well, if you had two, wouldn't you have twice the fun?



Next time she says " I'm married" try this

Her: Sorry....but I'm married!

You: I didn't hear you say "happily"
 
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Try my licks

Me: Why dont u give me ur number..I will call u every hour
Her: She laughs..I have a "boy" friend

Me: C'mon he is still a boy? You need a Man friend..call me up.. I know u will :)

OR

Me: Lets meet ..bring ur boyfriend along.. I will introduce him to my beautiful sister :)) then we can be a family

OR

Me: I am sure I am more fun than him :)

OR

Me: well thats all he can be right..just a boyfriend..I can be more than that..trust me

OR

Me: boyfriends are for girlfriends..u r a lady..u need a Man

Thats all folks..use them all rights reserved..:))
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Her: Erm.. I've got a boyfriend..

Me: EXCELLENT! He can make me a fry-up in the morning *big grin*
 
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Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Well yeah... But... do you have a lover?:)
 
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Her:i got a boyfriend

Me:OMG yeh me to but its a pretty open relationship

I say this with a smile on my face as a joke it always works for me. But then again im from Australia and ngirls here are way diffrent
 
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from david deangelo,

HER: i have a boyfriend
HIM: that's fine, because you probably have a ton of hot, single girlfriends, and you're going to introduce me to each and every one of them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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