i have a boyfriend

[*mattster]

please don't flame me for posting this here and not in the archive. but i think i just stumbled upon pure gold... it worked for me

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walking through a park on our lunch break, sat down on a bench...
looking deep into her eyes, smiling, her smiling back, i begin to move in for the kiss... and she drops the "boyfriend" bomb... i've known her for like 2 weeks (a client i worked closely with for these two weeks - very sexually charged the entire time - and she never onced mentioned a boyfriend, but discussed EVERYTHING ELSE in her life in great detail)

her: i have a boyfriend... (sad eyes)
me: (really slowly, talking with a soft, deep voice) that's great... (smiling, pause) all great love stories begin like this (she's looking at me and her eyes light up when i say this)... the only problem i can see is if we don't realise we were meant for eachother, but we both know we're way past that...

then i kissed her (nice and long), got up from the bench, said goodbye and walked off

had to really fight the urge to look back at her beautiful, probably perplexed, face. needless to say, she chased me down in about 30 seconds

life.is.good

 

[DavenJuan]

nice...your missing the most intringuing part...what was her response to the kiss? did she tell you she was lyihg about the bf or was she serious. ? update

 

[*mattster]

i have no clue to whether she actually has a boyfriend or not, and it's not something i worry about. but i do know that IF she WANTED me to know she is/was in a relationship, she would have made that crystal clear, at most a few days into our business "relationship". seriously... the things we talked about - there was nothing she wasn't comfortable with saying to me, so she would have mentioned her BF if she wanted me to know about him. but i don't believe she does have one though, in two weeks i'm sure i would have overheard either a phone conversation or smth like that... and she lives with three roommates... all women. looks like a sh!t test to me

when she caught up to me in the park neither of us said anything, she just grabbed onto my arm and walked back into the city with me. i had to go to a meeting on the other side of town, so when we passed my car i said goodbye. she said "you just made my life a little more complicated"
me: i disagree, i've made it really simple
she just nodded and smiled then i left

i'll see her tomorrow first thing in the morning for coffee, we'll see what happens then

 

[J-dog]

Mann, you realy screwed that up!!!!

 

[LostAndConfused]

Mann, you realy screwed that up!!!!

how? that seemed like an interesting tip.

 

[J-dog]

what do you mean with how??

 

[LostAndConfused]

how did he screw it up?

what mattster did was far from the thing an AFC would do.

do you even know what you are talking about?

 

[J-dog]

ohh..., well he started to flirt a bit, but the girl understands it as a fling. Just something normal. She didn't mention her bf probably to not make the dude jeales. And all that stuff. Now he kissed her, she know it isn't a fling. So is complicated for her now. So he screw up!!!

 

[HandyAndy]

dude your 14, what are you talking about?

 

[The-Kid]

This is how the the-fvcking-kid does it

biatch: I have a boyfriend
the kid: Oh thats cool im not the jealous type {naughty grin}

 

[Lord Shinra]

This is how the the-fvcking-kid does it

biatch: I have a boyfriend
the kid: Oh thats cool im not the jealous type {naughty grin}

That stopped working for me about 3 months ago.

I have to change up my game now :crazy:

 

[The-Kid]

That stopped working for me about 3 months ago.

I have to change up my game now :crazy:

thats coz u cant do it like we do im just fvcking with you whats yor new game like?

 

[Lord Shinra]

thats coz u cant do it like we do im just fvcking with you whats yor new game like?

I usually just :yes:
And then ask the question again.

Something like this.

HB: I have a boyfriend/ I'm seeing somebody
LS: *smiles and nods* *waits a few seconds*
HB: *confused*
LS: Ok, so what is it?

Usually works, but not always.

 

[The-Kid]

I usually just :yes:
And then ask the question again.

Something like this.

HB: I have a boyfriend/ I'm seeing somebody
LS: *smiles and nods* *waits a few seconds*
HB: *confused*
LS: Ok, so what is it?

Usually works, but not always.

haha i'll try it out man but i think "im not the jealous type" will get better results

 

[Lord Shinra]

haha i'll try it out man but i think "im not the jealous type" will get better results

Its like real estate.

Location location location.

Where I live, the "Im not the jealous type" line has been pounded into the ground by wannabes who revert back to AFCs. You always gotta change the dynamic I guess.