"I have a boyfriend" objection.

[Starriol]

In some of my approaches when I go for the close, I get the classical objection "I have a boyfriend".

Some strategies that come to mind is saying "That's OK, I'm not looking for a girlfriend actually". Or saying "OK, I was just thinking of being friends with you".

On the first one, if it pass the objection, you can turn it into a sexual relationship.

But on the later, it makes the two of you... friends.

Can you tell me what are your tried and working strategies to get past this problem?

Thanks, Starriol.

 

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Originally posted by Starriol

Can you tell me what are your tried and working strategies to get past this problem?

Thanks, Starriol.

Coincedentally I just nailed a Pommy chick on NYE who wouldnt shut up about her borefriend, she even brought him up while I was balls deep in her. The memory is still hazey but the first time she mentioned him I just said "Dont tell me your problems", the second I think I said something like "Obviously not as sexy and funny as me though" and the third time I just started plowing through with my conversation and brought her back into my reality like he never existed.

You should do a search, this has been covered a fair bit.

 

[Derek Flint]

HB: "I have a BF"

Me: "Not a problem - I'm not the jealous type"

 

[Distant Light]

Well how long into the set do you go for the close?

When I hear anything about boyfriends I use boyfriend destroyers because thats the only thing that i know that could overcome the bf situation.

 

[Starriol]

^^^ This problem arises much more often when I try to number close after 2-3 minutes of initiating convo.
I do this when I have no chance of keep the convo going.

Nice to know it anyway...