"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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" I have a boyfriend" Is that a No???

Rawone04

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To get to the point what do I do if she says i have a boyfrined? Give up or make it seem like we are just going to be friends?or What?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ser_i

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depends on your style for me...I don't give a ratts ass... so I first twist her mind, say something like.. whooo.. hold up there.. I thought we were just relaxing..

Include one of the following depending on type of girl and how you build up contact. >

> I'm not that kind of guy (walk off she'll either say or do something to stop you from leaving, or she'll coincidently (spl?) walk in your way and say hi, or give you a look from nearby look no good, saying hi yes ;) or she won't stop by you.. so what ?you allready had a no)

> If you feel that I'm competition for him you better walk of right now, but then you'd know what that means (give one evil look)

> (give a weird suprised look) I don't hang out with girls who are seeing someone.. (she could ask why or patch it up) it gives to much trouble (build on the conversation)
 

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It depends on yourself....

I got successful on this one girl who's got a BF... I didnt exactly stole her from him but we had this good relationship with each other.. Just go out with her, talk talk and talk.. Make her feel special whenever your together and all. Treat her like a QUEEN and don't keep to your mind that she has a BF already. Act normal..

That's all I can advice to you brother.. sorry im lil bit stoned right now.
 

WORKEROUTER

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I really wouldn't go for someone who's in a relationship. I know that if I was dating someone exclusively, and found out that she had been going on even casual meets with other guys, I would stop seeing her.
 
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