"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
" I have a boyfriend" Is that a No???
- Thread starter Rawone04
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ser_i
Don Juan
Include one of the following depending on type of girl and how you build up contact. >
> I'm not that kind of guy (walk off she'll either say or do something to stop you from leaving, or she'll coincidently (spl?) walk in your way and say hi, or give you a look from nearby look no good, saying hi yes
or she won't stop by you.. so what ?you allready had a no)> If you feel that I'm competition for him you better walk of right now, but then you'd know what that means (give one evil look)
> (give a weird suprised look) I don't hang out with girls who are seeing someone.. (she could ask why or patch it up) it gives to much trouble (build on the conversation)
I got successful on this one girl who's got a BF... I didnt exactly stole her from him but we had this good relationship with each other.. Just go out with her, talk talk and talk.. Make her feel special whenever your together and all. Treat her like a QUEEN and don't keep to your mind that she has a BF already. Act normal..
That's all I can advice to you brother.. sorry im lil bit stoned right now.