"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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'I have A Boyfriend, and My Friend Does Too"

swordfish01

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I approached 3 nice lookin ladies by myself the other night after all of them were eye ****ing the **** out of me from a distance.

I pull up and say "are you girls shy or something" or were you just going to screw me with your eyes from across the room all night.

They love it and are laughing and then give me the "I have a boyfriend and my firend is engaged and show me the rings...

I proceed with "thats ok, my girlfriend thought you were hot".

WHat is a good routine to run on girls that say they have boyfriends?

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker

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The fact that she says she has a BF means jack **** in this situtation, rings or not.

Remember, Non Verbal communtion can account for as much as 75% of all communcation.

* She/they are checking you out

* They are laughing at your jokes

* They are in a club

* They were smiling at you


But she said


We have a BF?

So? Your point? I didn't ask you that... If you gave a damn about him you wouldn't be here without him, and you wouldn't be eyeing me like I was a peice of steak.



I think you made your intentions known a little too quickly. IT's silly honestly, but you know was she is there for, she knows it, but she doesn't want to admit that she is there because she is looking for another man, or male attention. So she will do everything in her mind to justify it to herself that she isn't.

Think of it this way. It'sl ike she says "I have a BF" and if you hit on her, or anything "happens", it's not her fault, because you told her you had a BF.


Make a girl say NO, not she has a BF.. it's a big difference
 

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also, don't back down from your intentions.

you aren't there because your GF thinks she is hot. You are there becuase YOU think she is hot, and she was looking at you and you want to get to know her, in one way or another.

There is nothing wrong with that,s top walking on eggshells. If she rejects you, she just rejects you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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