"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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'I have A Boyfriend, and My Friend Does Too"

swordfish01

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I approached 3 nice lookin ladies by myself the other night after all of them were eye ****ing the **** out of me from a distance.

I pull up and say "are you girls shy or something" or were you just going to screw me with your eyes from across the room all night.

They love it and are laughing and then give me the "I have a boyfriend and my firend is engaged and show me the rings...

I proceed with "thats ok, my girlfriend thought you were hot".

WHat is a good routine to run on girls that say they have boyfriends?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The fact that she says she has a BF means jack **** in this situtation, rings or not.

Remember, Non Verbal communtion can account for as much as 75% of all communcation.

* She/they are checking you out

* They are laughing at your jokes

* They are in a club

* They were smiling at you


But she said


We have a BF?

So? Your point? I didn't ask you that... If you gave a damn about him you wouldn't be here without him, and you wouldn't be eyeing me like I was a peice of steak.



I think you made your intentions known a little too quickly. IT's silly honestly, but you know was she is there for, she knows it, but she doesn't want to admit that she is there because she is looking for another man, or male attention. So she will do everything in her mind to justify it to herself that she isn't.

Think of it this way. It'sl ike she says "I have a BF" and if you hit on her, or anything "happens", it's not her fault, because you told her you had a BF.


Make a girl say NO, not she has a BF.. it's a big difference
 

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also, don't back down from your intentions.

you aren't there because your GF thinks she is hot. You are there becuase YOU think she is hot, and she was looking at you and you want to get to know her, in one way or another.

There is nothing wrong with that,s top walking on eggshells. If she rejects you, she just rejects you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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