RichardTheFrog
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I don't even get what you're saying.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I have 9 Tinder matches. Now what?
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RichardTheFrog
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Why? IDGAF. I don't even have a/c. Hasn't bothered me yet.
I would live in the fvcking woods if it weren't for females and that who's gonna like a guy who lives in the fvcking woods.
noBSgames
Senior Don Juan
Any of you pay for tinder plus?
Serenity
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And you are to dumb to Google it?
You could appear more physically attractive with a better expression and better camera angles. I don't even know how that stereotype looks, I guess only broken men do.
I think your stupidity and lack of ability to help yourself is perhaps the defining factor that makes you unattractive. I can't help you to help yourself, so good luck.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
noBSgames
Senior Don Juan
So I tried tinder gold last night so far it's a waste of money.. the boost and everything. I kinda wished I could get my money back or go back in time and yell at myself don't do it!!
Mr. Focus
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Tinder works if you have good pics and just know what you're doing.
Don't have fvcking long ass conversations on tinder. 5-6 messages, then ask for a quick date to coffee or some ****. Set the date, ask for the number, I'll drop you a line blablabla and OVER.
You will now only contact them an 1 hour or so before the date to confirm, and you must call.
Don't have fvcking long ass conversations on tinder. 5-6 messages, then ask for a quick date to coffee or some ****. Set the date, ask for the number, I'll drop you a line blablabla and OVER.
You will now only contact them an 1 hour or so before the date to confirm, and you must call.
RichardTheFrog
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I'm not interested in getting dates. I'm interested in getting them in bed.
Mr. Focus
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Okay... obviously. Same thing here. You're not just going to get them to agree to fvck.
The date is just what gets you to actually see them in person so you can unleash your game and get the lay.
RichardTheFrog
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Makes sense. Except that I have no game that I'm aware of.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Glassguy
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Yes. Skeptically I tried it and I'm now on my second month.
My reasoning is the nearest big city to me (Columbus) is 65 miles. The amount of women on tinder there vs my area is 10000 times more. Those women are going to do searches based on their area, maybe 30 miles.....
So I paid for it so I could change my location to Columbus. I'm up there a lot this time of the year for OSU football games anyways. Whenever I would be in Columbus for ANY amount of time I would get 10 or so matches so I figured I would try it so I could set my location there whenever I want.
So far it's a home run. I honestly have to screen and also flake due to the lack of time to go there for dates.
Hell, when I tell them that I live an hour away they don't even care. If the D is good they will drive an hour to hang out. It's almost like a mini sechs vaca for them lol. But you have to get within their search distance on tinder or it doesn't matter since they will never see you to swipe right.
In my situation it's worth it just for the matches as I normally get 5+ a day. Then I get a quick convo going and screen. If they are fvckable, up for drinks, have their own place and know I live an hour away, its basically a green light to smash.
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Mr. Focus
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So you just invite yourself over to their place, huh? Work well for you? How do you go about it?
Glassguy
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@Mr. Focus
I dont invite myself over. I let them know that I live an hour away (sometimes a little further) when we set up drinks. If they are fine with that, I proceed to tell them that I will make sure to limit myself drinking wise due to the drive back home.
If they are thinking about the possibility of hooking up after, they will always come back with "you can always stay at my place if you drink too much. I dont want you driving back after we are out drinking
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That is the green light to smash.
I dont invite myself over. I let them know that I live an hour away (sometimes a little further) when we set up drinks. If they are fine with that, I proceed to tell them that I will make sure to limit myself drinking wise due to the drive back home.
If they are thinking about the possibility of hooking up after, they will always come back with "you can always stay at my place if you drink too much. I dont want you driving back after we are out drinking
"That is the green light to smash.
noBSgames
Senior Don Juan
So far 3 days and it's not working out for me I wish I could get a refund I've only had two matches and most of them say they never swipe left