"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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I hate valentines day

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Its a long distance relationship, but we usually have phone s*x at least once if not twice a day.
I didn't buy her any gifts, I wrote her an email in the morning.
She was happy and had planned dinner with her single female friends.
She stayed out late with them having drinks with them at one of their houses, we spoke on the phone a few times... Girls in the background saying enough love talk, don't be anti social etc. It was far from 'love talk' I was telling her to hurry up and get home as I'd stayed home to spend time talking to her.
She messaged on the way home, asked why I'm angry. I wasn't angry as such, just not being overly affectionate, she showered me with I love you etc.
Rang her while she was in bed, also kept probing me. I was a little cold with her because I didn't appreciate her partying with friends when she knew I was available for her.
Time difference accounted for she was very tired, but we didn't do 'anything' together, she was falling asleep as she was speaking.
I asked her what she was celebrating, she didn't really answer. I asked her why she didn't spend time with me on valentines day, she said because every day is valentines day for us.
I mean fine, I might sound like a whiney b*tch but I expect s*x on v day!
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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styleman said:
Its a long distance relationship, but we usually have phone s*x at least once if not twice a day.
I didn't buy her any gifts, I wrote her an email in the morning.
She was happy and had planned dinner with her single female friends.
She stayed out late with them having drinks with them at one of their houses, we spoke on the phone a few times... Girls in the background saying enough love talk, don't be anti social etc. It was far from 'love talk' I was telling her to hurry up and get home as I'd stayed home to spend time talking to her.
She messaged on the way home, asked why I'm angry. I wasn't angry as such, just not being overly affectionate, she showered me with I love you etc.
Rang her while she was in bed, also kept probing me. I was a little cold with her because I didn't appreciate her partying with friends when she knew I was available for her.
Time difference accounted for she was very tired, but we didn't do 'anything' together, she was falling asleep as she was speaking.
I asked her what she was celebrating, she didn't really answer. I asked her why she didn't spend time with me on valentines day, she said because every day is valentines day for us.
I mean fine, I might sound like a whiney b*tch but I expect s*x on v day!
Thoughts?
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Holy crap you sound like a major clinger man....you are most likely killing her attraction for you.....even if it's long distance, you can't demand that she not party with her friends just so she can talk to you nor should you get butthurt about it...I would bet money that her friends all make fun of you to her...

it's valentine's day? Who cares????? only women are supposed to care about it...i sure as h%ll don't......and stop being such a phone person...i know long distance...but too much talking on the phone makes the relationship get old quickly. I am guessing you are really young???? Go meet some plates ..and quit obsessing over one long distance chick...
 
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zinc4 said:
Holy crap you sound like a major clinger man....you are most likely killing her attraction for you.....even if it's long distance, you can't demand that she not party with her friends just so she can talk to you nor should you get butthurt about it...I would bet money that her friends all make fun of you to her...

it's valentine's day? Who cares????? only women are supposed to care about it...i sure as h%ll don't......and stop being such a phone person...i know long distance...but too much talking on the phone makes the relationship get old quickly. I am guessing you are really young???? Go meet some plates ..and quit obsessing over one long distance chick...
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Yeah well I did ask her why is valentine's day only about girls... Answer, it just is.
Have been with "one long distance chick" for 3 years, its not my intention to meet others.
Forget anything else, I don't think its right that she makes time for me late at night and doesn't have the energy to masterb*ate with me. She should have come home earlier.
 
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styleman said:
Yeah well I did ask her why is valentine's day only about girls... Answer, it just is.
Have been with "one long distance chick" for 3 years, its not my intention to meet others.
Forget anything else, I don't think its right that she makes time for me late at night and doesn't have the energy to masterb*ate with me. She should have come home earlier.
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Mr. "Romance" is all pissy because his long distance girlfriend didn't want to stay home and masturbate with him on the phone for Valentines day. You could've at least took her to an expensive virtual restaurant by emailing her the link to it first and or sent her some virtual flowers and teddy bear! LMAO

This sh1t is CLASSIC material!! Hahahahaha!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phone sex isn't sex.
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We enjoy it and will f*ck in a week or so. Post is about valentines day and how shi*ty it is, not the pitfalls of long distance.
 
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if you keep acting like this with your woman, then no way in h$ll she will remain attracted to you much longer and i don't care how many times she says "i love you"

and try to not do phone sex..i mean what kind of guy who is getting a lot of action enjoys phone sex??? it's just seems like a waste of time...if you can't obstain from it only have phone sex with her once at week at most and don't talk to her on the phone that often...just don't...and if you are talking frequently keep the calls short...always leave her wanting more...and only tell her you love her on special occasions or moments
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Valentines Day is likely to be sh*tty when you're not having sex with your girl because you are in a long distance relationship. Notice how the pitfalls of long distance and how cr*ppy Valentines Day are go hand in hand?
 
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