"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

I hate to admit it, but money matters.

Thread starter lookyoung
Start date Jan 27, 2007

Aaron B

Master Don Juan

Feb 2, 2007

For myself, I want a girl to like me in spite of the fact that I don't have a lot of money.

If I was wealthy, I would be concerned about attracting gold diggers. I would likely hide my true financial status until she had proven she was into me, not my money.

Too many gold-diggers out there to take a chance.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.