"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Hate That Term "Gym Freak"

soulforge

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I've heard a lot of interesting comments over the years, and I'm convinced almost all of them stem from envy and bitterness:

"I wish I had the time to hit the gym but [INSERT EXCUSE HERE] won't allow it."

"I wish I liked eating tuna and rice and oatmeal."

I usually hear the most amusing comments from sedentary/overweight know-it-all types who "used to" bench 500 pounds.

Haha I get that alot.

I used to bench this much
I used to run this much
I was seriously ripped and in shape

OK.. So what are you doing now? Erm I just don't have the time lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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soulforge

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I've never met a mirror I didn't like, and, in my opinion, gym owners understand that most people like to look at themselves while training, which is why almost every gym has mirrors.
Looking in the mirror is standard.. Most lifters do it.. I don't see the harm!

Not sure how one can gauge, level of Gym Freak, from the amount of time looked in the mirror.

I've been hitting the gym for years, never noticed anyone over doing it, too busy focused on my workout.

Maybe its different in some areas.
 

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Everything in moderation. I go to the gym religiously, but I don't really discuss it with others unless they specifically ask. "Gym freak" to me means someone who is obsessive about exercise. There is a point where it is too much IMO.
 
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