"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I Hate That Term "Gym Freak"

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I've heard a lot of interesting comments over the years, and I'm convinced almost all of them stem from envy and bitterness:

"I wish I had the time to hit the gym but [INSERT EXCUSE HERE] won't allow it."

"I wish I liked eating tuna and rice and oatmeal."

I usually hear the most amusing comments from sedentary/overweight know-it-all types who "used to" bench 500 pounds.

Haha I get that alot.

I used to bench this much
I used to run this much
I was seriously ripped and in shape

OK.. So what are you doing now? Erm I just don't have the time lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've never met a mirror I didn't like, and, in my opinion, gym owners understand that most people like to look at themselves while training, which is why almost every gym has mirrors.
Looking in the mirror is standard.. Most lifters do it.. I don't see the harm!

Not sure how one can gauge, level of Gym Freak, from the amount of time looked in the mirror.

I've been hitting the gym for years, never noticed anyone over doing it, too busy focused on my workout.

Maybe its different in some areas.
 

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Everything in moderation. I go to the gym religiously, but I don't really discuss it with others unless they specifically ask. "Gym freak" to me means someone who is obsessive about exercise. There is a point where it is too much IMO.
 
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