"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, I havent been on here in months. Long story short I got back with this girl (shes actually sleeping in y room right now) 2 months ago that I had dated earlier this year.(search previous posts) I liked her alot the first time around but she dumped me for some other guy and I was upset. I got over it and moved on to other girls. 2 months ago we started seeing each other again and now Im ready to dump her. Shes really clingy and always gets mad at me for stupid crap especially when shes been drinkin. And there are other things that bother me about her. And there is this other girl Ive had my eye on also. Anyone have any experiences like this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I talked to my mom about this and she called "men my age" "skirtchasers"...funny...thats your name....so what do i do now?
 
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Don't feel bad about dropping this clinger man.

For any of the fun times you get in the beginning people like this only bring stress and frustration in the long run and a DJ just doesn't need that in his life.

Clingy girls take all your mental energy and just leave you drained.

Have fun and go after the other girl you've got your eye on.
 
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You simply have the choice to dump her and go after that other woman. On the other hand, you can still keep your girl and then go after the other one in secret. Really just a question of your morals.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The other girl knows Im with her and shes a good girl. Good meaning shes a virgin. And shes really hot....
 
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The only crappy part is this girl will do ANYTHING for me. You name it she would do it. She pays for my food, drinks etc. all the time. I rarely pay for anything. Mainly bc I dont have a job. And I recently had knee surgery and she did everything for me. Thats whats making this hard.
 
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