"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I Hate Myself

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Okay, I havent been on here in months. Long story short I got back with this girl (shes actually sleeping in y room right now) 2 months ago that I had dated earlier this year.(search previous posts) I liked her alot the first time around but she dumped me for some other guy and I was upset. I got over it and moved on to other girls. 2 months ago we started seeing each other again and now Im ready to dump her. Shes really clingy and always gets mad at me for stupid crap especially when shes been drinkin. And there are other things that bother me about her. And there is this other girl Ive had my eye on also. Anyone have any experiences like this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I talked to my mom about this and she called "men my age" "skirtchasers"...funny...thats your name....so what do i do now?
 

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Don't feel bad about dropping this clinger man.

For any of the fun times you get in the beginning people like this only bring stress and frustration in the long run and a DJ just doesn't need that in his life.

Clingy girls take all your mental energy and just leave you drained.

Have fun and go after the other girl you've got your eye on.
 
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You simply have the choice to dump her and go after that other woman. On the other hand, you can still keep your girl and then go after the other one in secret. Really just a question of your morals.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The other girl knows Im with her and shes a good girl. Good meaning shes a virgin. And shes really hot....
 

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The only crappy part is this girl will do ANYTHING for me. You name it she would do it. She pays for my food, drinks etc. all the time. I rarely pay for anything. Mainly bc I dont have a job. And I recently had knee surgery and she did everything for me. Thats whats making this hard.
 
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