i hate leading girls on...

[HOSS83]

On Saturday night, a girl approached me at a bar and said "Look, I'm leaving, but I'm really attracted to you, and I'd like to get to know you sometime"... so I got her # and tonight we went out for a few drinks.

The conversation was awesome, she's cute and a sweetheart, a great catch for sooooo many guys, but the whole time she was sitting there I couldn't stop thinking to myself, "You're going to lead this girl on and hurt her."

I kissed this girl goodnight, and she's probably smiling and telling her roommates what a great time she had - and I'm sitting here depressed thinking about how I'm going to make this girl cry...

I guess I'm just babbling here, but does anyone ever feel the way I do right now?

 

[Supreme1]

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How interested in her are you? Do you see her as just a lay or a potential relationship?

 

[HOSS83]

Well, this was the first time we hung out, and it was cool. She's not "my type" - I'm real picky - and I don't want to hurt her.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by HOSS83
Well, this was the first time we hung out, and it was cool. She's not "my type" - I'm real picky - and I don't want to hurt her.

You don't like the girl then end it and don't be such a pvssy. You keep this charade going and you are going to end up in the alter marring her.

DjDamage

 

[Supreme1]

Well if I were you i would tell her what chicks tell us guys all the time - "Let's Just Be Friends"

If you like hanging out with her than tell her you're not looking for a relationship right now but you still want to be friends. She should understand.

Dont worry about hurting her, thats the thoughts of an AFC.

If you tell her you wanna be friends she definately wont be hurt by that - in fact the complete opposite - she'll probably be even more attracted to you.

Remember - The focus is on YOU not on her