"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
Yes, I live in Sydney Australia and the ratio of men to women is around 10 to 1. It takes 5 hours of being online for every date. Then when you go on a date, the woman is rarely interested because she has 5 more dates booked in for the next 2 weeks
 

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I find that ratio hard to believe. Regardless, if it takes five hours online to find a date that turns out to be a dud, why not find your dates offline???
 

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That doesn't mean she's an attention *****, it could mean that she's a 7+ and that there are 1000000000000 AFC's sending her emails.

Send her a joke, make her laugh, make her laugh at her self. No one else is going to poke fun at her job, or hobbies, so I suggest doing that.
 

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I agree with user.....you should bust on her for being an Attention ***** and you should tell her that she probably lives off the attention from losers and that she only feels good when she plays with them and then laugh at her.

I thik if you can reframe her so that YOU know she is playing with all these guys she might freak and start to talk to you more , but what do I know the whole Internet game scene is booooooring.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
If the two of you live so close to one another, why not talk about some familiar places where the two of you could quickly meet up in order to get to know one another better. Of course this would mean that a decent level of comfort was established between the two of you. She probably wouldn't meet up with someone she thinks of as just another kbj. But that would also mean that you've qualified her enough to determine whether she truly interested or just a AW.
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
argh. why do they all have to be attn. hos???

here is what she said:

Me (in relation to me previously telling her that I lived nearby) : I already told you that silly. or at least I think I did. hmm. I don't know if I got the add or not. my AIM has been acting crazy. we'll see. ;)

Her: Sorry, I have so many people emailing me on here it's hard to keep up. :)

Me: whatever. ;) this vegan cinnamon roll is soo good. made with almonds instead of bread. mmm.

I don't even know what to say. How to stand out above the pack of keyboard jockeys.
Stay off the internet when looking for women. Get out there in the real world. The mall, stores, clubs, beach, museums, events, wherever there are people. I"ve done the internet thingy and it's mostly desperate lonely women with low self-esteem you get. Oh and did I mention, drama queens?
 
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